Category: bottoming

Lidocaine: A little help for longer play

For most bottoms, the first sign that the session must end is external pain or soreness, which often results from repeated friction rather than from too much stretching. This is not a sign that should be ignored – as I mentioned before, pain means your body is trying to tell you something. Your hole will…


FAQ2: Do I need poppers?

After lube, the most common item in the fister’s shopping list is poppers. Most practitioners believe fisting is impossible without them. Is this true? Well, not really. I have had many fisting sessions without poppers. However, those times are a tiny minority of my fisting experience. So, are poppers really necessary for opening up to…


FAQ1: How deep do I need to clean?

This is going to be the first of a series of posts in each of which I will give a longer answer to a question I commonly get from people curious about fisting. I have given short answers to a lot of these elsewhere, but here I will go into more detail and provide more…


Fisting and Toys: Do I need them?

When we talk fisting, the fist itself is obviously king. One of the things that makes fisting much easier to approach than other kinks is the low “gear” requirement. Really, the only thing you need is lube. Of course there are many things to shop for that make fisting easier, safer, cleaner, and more fun….


It only takes two times (usually)

One of the most common questions I get from beginner bottoms is “how long will it take before I can take a whole fist?” As I mentioned before, the most sincere response to this is along the lines of: “It depends, everyone is individual, you won’t know until you try, yadda yadda yadda”. Any answer…