Category: personal

Every bottom is a planet

Back in my academic days, a criticism professor told me to look at every work of art as a new planet: unique, self-contained, unexplored. I do not know how much astrology she actually knew, but the metaphor was well chosen. A planet has its own gravity, its own atmosphere, its own day and night cycle,…


Berlin International Munch – I’m hosting!

This is just a quick announcement to let you guys know I agreed to host the Berlin International (ie English language) Fetish Munch this coming Friday. This is a weekly social gathering for Berlin pervs – not a play party – at varying locations, and it gets a really good turn out, sometimes more than…


My instructional fisting video plan

I have had the idea for a few years now of creating a series of informative videos on the subject of fisting. Not porn, and not even particularly action-focused stuff, but genuinely informative, instructional videos that beginners and maybe even relatively advanced players can learn from. Part of this idea relates to the subject I…


How I learned – and how you can too

This post will hopefully be my most “useful” one so far, in that it contains some actual advice on how you can go about getting into the “sport”, as I like to call it. As I mentioned before, I spent many years, from about 22 or 23 to maybe 27, watching fisting videos, fantasising about…


My AHA moment

As an obsessive podcast listener, when people get asked “How did you get into…” I always expect them to say “I can’t remember when I was not into…”. Sounds familiar? But this is not how it went with me and fisting. There is a very discreet moment, for me, and it (seems to me) was…


The art, the sport, and the science

I thought it would make sense to start by sharing my perspective on what fisting actually is and what it means to me, before I delve on how I got to where I am. Of course this is highly personal. Depending on where you situate fisting within the larger world of BDSM, kink, and sex,…


Setting out plans for this blog

Hello and welcome! In this first post I want to lay down a plan for the immediate future, in terms of updates and blog posts. This is as much for myself as for you readers. Obviously I welcome any feedback on what you would be interested in seeing on this blog, and how I can…